In general coaches in sports such as tennis and golf are overrated. If you happen to have a great coach consider yourself lucky...if you are a boy or a girl. These types generally seem to have fragile egos and insecure personalities. Maybe they had their asses handed to them one too many times on the court itself. Close behind, generally speaking, is the tennis parent. I'm from the Robert Lansdorp school of thought. Welby Van Horn comes to mind. Don Budge himself. Guys so secure within themselves they don't necessarily need a second opinion. They speak with authority.
You see it here on the forum from time to time. So indignant. Huffy. Recognise yourself? If you have a good coach consider yourself fortunate. But in the end the responsibility is all on the player. There is no way around it. "You can do it" I used to love to tell the kids. Sometimes I ended up saying..."I can't do it for you". I like what arturohernandez is doing with his daughter. Teaching her to listen to her own drummer. I like what hockeyscout is doing with his daughter. Developing the athlete first. Building on the foundation of athleticism. Both these guys have different ideas or even ambitions. But both are instilling some valuable lessons beyond tennis with their kids.
I was fortunate to have a great, great coach. Sherman Collins. His guiding hand was with me on and off the court. His voice is still in my head. His voice became my voice in all things tennis. He was a classic. Impeccable strokes. Impeccable tennis mind. I will never forget his image in his white tennis clothes and dark tan. The clean cut look of a farm kid who grew up wholesome with good old fashioned values. I get a kick out of visiting he and his wife. They have been married 66 years...as long as I have been on this planet. If I had ever made the tour there is only one coach that I would ever consider being my coach. Good old Sherman Collins. But you won't find any like him any more. They broke the mould.
You see it here on the forum from time to time. So indignant. Huffy. Recognise yourself? If you have a good coach consider yourself fortunate. But in the end the responsibility is all on the player. There is no way around it. "You can do it" I used to love to tell the kids. Sometimes I ended up saying..."I can't do it for you". I like what arturohernandez is doing with his daughter. Teaching her to listen to her own drummer. I like what hockeyscout is doing with his daughter. Developing the athlete first. Building on the foundation of athleticism. Both these guys have different ideas or even ambitions. But both are instilling some valuable lessons beyond tennis with their kids.
I was fortunate to have a great, great coach. Sherman Collins. His guiding hand was with me on and off the court. His voice is still in my head. His voice became my voice in all things tennis. He was a classic. Impeccable strokes. Impeccable tennis mind. I will never forget his image in his white tennis clothes and dark tan. The clean cut look of a farm kid who grew up wholesome with good old fashioned values. I get a kick out of visiting he and his wife. They have been married 66 years...as long as I have been on this planet. If I had ever made the tour there is only one coach that I would ever consider being my coach. Good old Sherman Collins. But you won't find any like him any more. They broke the mould.
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