hockeyscout...
You have a valid point. Nothing is cast in stone…it seems. But I know next to nothing of any of the gentlemen you mention here. This is why in my original post here on this thread I made the following statement in which you have decided to run with in the entirely wrong direction…
…you see even if I don't agree with your approach to tennis or life or whatever…I leave open the possibility and the probability that there are other roads other than my own that will deliver you to the Promised Land.
All of my students learn to play tennis. I am not in the position to be a development coach. I do not have the resources to do so. I am however intellectually capable of doing just that. In my opinion it is probably more challenging to teach beginners how to play than to coach accomplished players. It requires endless patience.
My explanations are with words that seem to make sense to a lot of coaches here on the forum. I use some of the video resources here on the forum to support what I say but much of what I do is as you say "only with words". But this is an art also and one that you apparently do not appreciate or are intimidated by. On this forum countless times I have entered into discussions and contributed meaningfully without being shouted down and accused of "taking people's money unethically"…or as you have so wit-fully identified me as "don_budge, the tennis coach who's kids cannot play".
I will never understand in all of my life why you insist on engaging in such an antagonistic relationship with me…my only guess is you are envious. It's your problem and my advice to you is to get help to deal with it.
You put words in my mouth. You twist the things that I say. All that I am guilty of is answering the thread that you started with regard to your daughter. I was only trying to help. When it became obvious that you weren't listening or you didn't need my help I stopped communication with you. I didn't persist or stalk you. But the question for you is…Why? Why are you so gonzo on trying to discredit me?
By the way…I don't care. Not even a little. You are there and I am here. How could you possibly matter to me? You want to fight me? You see…you are a hockey player and you are ready to drop your gloves and I want nothing to do with you. Or rather I want nothing to do with your nonsense. If you wish to conduct yourself like a gentleman…I have absolutely no problem with you. Think things over and remember…"It isn't the strongest that survives or even the smartest…it is the one that adapts the best."
Good luck in life and I hope for the best with your daughter but I fear that you are instilling your combative attitude in her and it might not serve her so well in the future. You seem to be about as mean a person as I have ever met in my life. But as you say…what do I know?
Originally posted by hockeyscout
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Originally posted by don_budge
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All of my students learn to play tennis. I am not in the position to be a development coach. I do not have the resources to do so. I am however intellectually capable of doing just that. In my opinion it is probably more challenging to teach beginners how to play than to coach accomplished players. It requires endless patience.
My explanations are with words that seem to make sense to a lot of coaches here on the forum. I use some of the video resources here on the forum to support what I say but much of what I do is as you say "only with words". But this is an art also and one that you apparently do not appreciate or are intimidated by. On this forum countless times I have entered into discussions and contributed meaningfully without being shouted down and accused of "taking people's money unethically"…or as you have so wit-fully identified me as "don_budge, the tennis coach who's kids cannot play".
I will never understand in all of my life why you insist on engaging in such an antagonistic relationship with me…my only guess is you are envious. It's your problem and my advice to you is to get help to deal with it.
You put words in my mouth. You twist the things that I say. All that I am guilty of is answering the thread that you started with regard to your daughter. I was only trying to help. When it became obvious that you weren't listening or you didn't need my help I stopped communication with you. I didn't persist or stalk you. But the question for you is…Why? Why are you so gonzo on trying to discredit me?
By the way…I don't care. Not even a little. You are there and I am here. How could you possibly matter to me? You want to fight me? You see…you are a hockey player and you are ready to drop your gloves and I want nothing to do with you. Or rather I want nothing to do with your nonsense. If you wish to conduct yourself like a gentleman…I have absolutely no problem with you. Think things over and remember…"It isn't the strongest that survives or even the smartest…it is the one that adapts the best."
Good luck in life and I hope for the best with your daughter but I fear that you are instilling your combative attitude in her and it might not serve her so well in the future. You seem to be about as mean a person as I have ever met in my life. But as you say…what do I know?
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